I don't usualy write reviews for products but since no one has yet to do so for this wonderful product i thought i should step up. Owning several "novelty" items myself i was immedietly intrigued when i came across the Blush Godess. I have seen other products with the same shape but hesitated to buy one because of the cost, so when i came across this one i purchased it right away. Because of it's unique shape i have always wondered how it would be inserted and if it would be comfortable. As soon as it came in the mail i tried it out and was very pleasantly surprised. It is very easy to use and place properly and is quite comfortable. The shaft is very firm but not so hard that it is uncomfortable and has a velvety soft feel to the touch. The little clitoral extension is not as firm as the shaft but just as soft to the touch and is not really meant to be hard because of the way it is supposed to be used. As soon as it was was in place it was very easy to sit up on the edge of, in my case anyway, the couch. Once there all i had to do was turn it on and rock my hips forward and back and everytime i rocked forward the clitoral extension, which as i said is not as hard as the shaft, would press against the vibrating bullet hidden inside just below the on/off button and I could feel the inserted shaft stimulation as well. All in all the experience was akin to being on top in the cowgirl postition, but with more thrust control and added clitoral stimulation, i would give it a ten if i could!